In American Studies last week we discussed how a single word
could impact the meaning of a sentence. For instance, if you changed “the man
died” to “the man was murdered” you have completely transformed the sentence.
This got me thinking about how a single word can be so important. What first
came to my mind was my name. A name is a word that you hear countless times a
day, a word that identifies you. Can this word impact our lives as much as the
word “murdered” impacted that sentence?
I came across an article in The
Week arguing that it can. The article said that your name could make you feel
inferior and like you need to live up to it. It also declared that your name
could cause you to act out in school and even cause people to decide whether
they want to trust you or run from you.
Personally, I find this to be a bit
of a stretch. I could understand the feeling of wanting to live up to a name
because you are named after a grandparent or someone you value. However, I
highly doubt that most people want to do great things because of their name
itself. Also, I don’t think a child can blame acting out in school on their
name. If a child was called into the principal’s office for acting out and they
said, “Sorry, my name made me do it!” they most definitely would not be let off
the hook. Finally, if I introduced myself and someone ran away screaming my
first thought wouldn’t be, “That makes sense, I do have a scary name.” So after
much thought, I don’t believe that a name can change your life as much as a
word can change a sentence. After all, does every Jack you’ve ever met act the
same?
This is very interesting. It made me think about my name in ways I never have thought about it before. And I agree with you in that a name does not define you, however, I believe that a person may have a certain affect on you and than you may from then on associate that name with that feeling. For example, if there was someone named Jill who bullied me I would start associating the name Jill with a negative connotation. So in a sense, I think you can define you name, not let your name define you.
ReplyDelete